We've found an amazing new home with a lot more square footage than the home we are in now. So we begin the process of moving our lives, that we have routinely led, to start a new beginning.
Yikes!! I think their must be another group of children who moved in while I wasn't looking and left stuff in our home!! How did this get here?
I forgot how many items we have retained in our small space but when packing...it felt like I was climbing a steep hill with ice shoes on my feet! I never felt any relaxation and could not see the top. All I saw were boxes, tape, scissors, markers, and stickers!
I didn't consider how or when to begin packing. I just thought my fairy godperson would show up and BIPITY BOPITY BOO...IT WOULD BE DONE. Our last move, we hired movers. This time, I don't know why we decided not to go that route this time but instead we chose to do this ourselves.
Breathe...ok....I got this.
Headcount: We are packing for 7 people, and a dog (who also has three boxes of her own with toys and clothes)!
Question of the day: How can I make this work without having a full anxiety attack?
While living in our current home, we had to be creative with our storage. So when we began retrieving these items to pack them to carry to our new home, it was like going on a treasure hunt. hmmmm.....treasure hunt.... I just figured out how to make it fun in order to persuade our children (ages 8-13) to assist with packing. Every time they "find" a piece of "gold" (oh...our definition of "gold" is an item they have not worn, used, touched or seen in months because it was BURIED) has to be donated. The prize: they could earn an hour of an activity, once we moved and unpacked. Each item in their treasure boxes we called gold nuggets. Whoever has the most "gold" wins. ((I'm a little sneaky but they are HIGHLY competitive))
Our youngest girl was definitely not falling for it. She is a hoarder with OCD. How does that work? Well, she wants to keep EVERYTHING she has and label a container for storage but nothing can be given away. So this game was created ideally to keep her involved and me a little stress-free. At first, she was very reluctant on putting "her babies up for adoption". But once she saw how her brothers were quickly filling their "Treasure chest" boxes, she jumped on board and became the best "treasure hunter" in the house.
She also taught me a HUGE lesson of mind over matter. I struggle a lot with giving away the dresses that "I'm gonna wear that" or "the next big event..I'm definitely wearing that one". Umm....yeah, I'm a highly functioning introvert who loves to be invited to parties but would rather read a book with my favorite pj's on. So I had to also task myself with finding gold. Gifting items that were still boxed up under the stairs. Saying no to the appliances I don't really want but holding on to them because "so and so" gave it to me. Nope! It all had to go.
There's a lot of mini-messages we need to learn about ourselves when packing and purging. We are learning about what we need vs what we hold on to. Holding on to items can just hold space in our hidden spaces in our heads, hearts, and minds. Letting go is LIBERATING!
I challenge you to find your "gold" pieces!
Yikes!! I think their must be another group of children who moved in while I wasn't looking and left stuff in our home!! How did this get here?
I forgot how many items we have retained in our small space but when packing...it felt like I was climbing a steep hill with ice shoes on my feet! I never felt any relaxation and could not see the top. All I saw were boxes, tape, scissors, markers, and stickers!
I didn't consider how or when to begin packing. I just thought my fairy godperson would show up and BIPITY BOPITY BOO...IT WOULD BE DONE. Our last move, we hired movers. This time, I don't know why we decided not to go that route this time but instead we chose to do this ourselves.
Breathe...ok....I got this.
Headcount: We are packing for 7 people, and a dog (who also has three boxes of her own with toys and clothes)!
Question of the day: How can I make this work without having a full anxiety attack?
While living in our current home, we had to be creative with our storage. So when we began retrieving these items to pack them to carry to our new home, it was like going on a treasure hunt. hmmmm.....treasure hunt.... I just figured out how to make it fun in order to persuade our children (ages 8-13) to assist with packing. Every time they "find" a piece of "gold" (oh...our definition of "gold" is an item they have not worn, used, touched or seen in months because it was BURIED) has to be donated. The prize: they could earn an hour of an activity, once we moved and unpacked. Each item in their treasure boxes we called gold nuggets. Whoever has the most "gold" wins. ((I'm a little sneaky but they are HIGHLY competitive))
Our youngest girl was definitely not falling for it. She is a hoarder with OCD. How does that work? Well, she wants to keep EVERYTHING she has and label a container for storage but nothing can be given away. So this game was created ideally to keep her involved and me a little stress-free. At first, she was very reluctant on putting "her babies up for adoption". But once she saw how her brothers were quickly filling their "Treasure chest" boxes, she jumped on board and became the best "treasure hunter" in the house.
She also taught me a HUGE lesson of mind over matter. I struggle a lot with giving away the dresses that "I'm gonna wear that" or "the next big event..I'm definitely wearing that one". Umm....yeah, I'm a highly functioning introvert who loves to be invited to parties but would rather read a book with my favorite pj's on. So I had to also task myself with finding gold. Gifting items that were still boxed up under the stairs. Saying no to the appliances I don't really want but holding on to them because "so and so" gave it to me. Nope! It all had to go.
There's a lot of mini-messages we need to learn about ourselves when packing and purging. We are learning about what we need vs what we hold on to. Holding on to items can just hold space in our hidden spaces in our heads, hearts, and minds. Letting go is LIBERATING!
I challenge you to find your "gold" pieces!
I know letting go of things is never easy but when you have been blessed with so much then it always feels better when you can share with some one else who may appreciate them a bit more. I am going through the same thing it will be a great relief when i can see the light at the end of the tunnel once i downsize and share the wealth of my blessings. Godd luck and congratulations on your new home. Love you ������
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